Our Hotwives

Because my sexy blond hot wife is too hot for just me. I love watching my friends with her alone or in a threesome. Hearing about their dates. It helps her self esteem and makes her feel sexy and desired. No matter how attractive a woman is they always need continuous attention and reassurance.

If a woman is unfaithful because she doesn’t love me, or loves the other guy, that’s the worst kind of rejection. If she steps out only for better sex (a bigger cock), that’s a less personal and hurtful rejection. The cuckold fantasy is a strategy for securing an insecure realtionship, a vulnerable love. If that BBC makes her happy, but still faithful to me, then I suffer less. In theory at least.

So my DNA and my ego cut a deal. My ego consents to other men’s sperm in her box, which is good for making babies. (Our DNA craves impregnation by any male, not by me alone.) In return, my DNA empowers my libido to assuage and console my ego, by making my female partner’s slutty adventures intensely arousing and pleasurable for me. My mind, not my dick, becomes the primary pleasure center.

This also explains a cuckold man’s obsession with dick size. The idea that my sexual potential is limited by my dick size gives me a reason to support her right to play with others, and keeps me in my place. If she and I agree that my cock is substandard, then I am motivated to stay in the relationship and faithful to her alone. We both see a reason for her to enjoy other men, and we’re both happy.

The ease of modern contraception also means that I have a better shot at being the father of her children. So I’m less anxious about that age old problem, and can focus on pleasure as the purpose of sex most of the time.

I think it's just fucking hot to watch and hear. But I'm a simple kinda guy.
I also gave up thinking about why a long time ago and just enjoy the experiences we have.

For me, it was alot of things. The main one was that it proved beyond doubt how lucky I was! Her type is 15-20 younger, fit/athletic, and cute enough to not struggle with the ladies. Bonus points for a big dick and multi-round stamina. So the fact that these types of guys not only hit on her, but would also fuck her, knowing she was married, in her home, without condoms, even creampie her, proved to me she was sexy as hell. I also loved the confidence she would demonstrate afterwards, attire choices, sexting, and even when she would brag to our friends about the better fucks. She even introduced our best couple friends to one just before she fucked him! Not just that she could fuck guys like this, it was also super sexy that she wanted to and had no issue doing so.

My wife has had steady lovers for 20 years. At first, my wife always had sex with her lover at our house, which included threesomes as well. As our children grew older, we also had to adapt and my wife then mostly spent one night with her lover in his place, which later turned into a whole weekend with him. I also support my wife in developing these relationships. Let's take the point when she packs her bag for the weekend. My wife chooses the more "behaved" lingerie. I then replace it with something more revealing, more slutty items. The anal plug, lubricant and handcuffs should not be missing either. After a shower, she lies on our bed with her legs apart and I shave the last pubic hair from her entrance. I do notice in this moment that my wife is already full of anticipation. But - it is not only a welcome break from the routine for my wife in our long-term marriage. No - these lover also ensured that my wife always received her confirmation that she never lost her attractiveness in all these years. Whenever my wife returns home after a weekend with her lover, she is usually highly motivated. She had a good time with him and the sex at night was just perfect. But be careful- The bases in choosing this kind of lifestyle: There should be a solid foundation, mutual trust, as well the freedom to talk about it openly

Welcome to the forum Adri_Albert.

Awesome post adri_albert. Sounds like you and your hotwife have had a wonderful life so far and lots of exciting tales to share. Perhaps your very own thread with details would be very welcome

I had this younger mistress about ten years ago and one time in my car when she gave me one of her amazing blow jobs her phone lit up and I could see it was her boyfriend calling. She didn’t answer but kept on going and I was so turned on by that experience. Our relationship changed a few month later. She left her boyfriend and started to date many men at the same time. At first I was jealous but I became more and more fascinated by her sexual power. We had an amazing chemistry in bed. I was always the dominate one. But I liked the fact that she really had all the power over me. I was one of her play toys. And she was not ashamed at all to talk in public about her men (not any details, just making sure to let everyone know she was a woman with many boyfriends).

As time went by our sexual relationship ended. Over the years I have become more and more intrigued by the thought of my wife being that kind of free spirit. I still like the fantasy of fucking another man’s woman but I’m actually more into the thought of my woman being fucked by another guy.

My wife is a really gorgeous 47 year old red head with amazing 65G natural boobs. She has always and for no reason at all being a bit shy sexually. She’s not a hotwife yet but our main talk in bed is about her fucking other men and even though she says she’s not interested in real life I’m pretty sure she can be under the right circumstances. She likes to tell me in bed how she’s like to be with a younger guy with a great body and a larger cock. Not only because she sees what effect the words has on me. I can tell she really likes the thought of it.

So still not an official stag but I’d love for my wife to meet the right guy who’ll fuck her brains out and worship her body the way it deserves. She’s way too good to keep for myself.

Andreas wrote: ↑

Sat Jan 25, 2025 1:31 am

I’d love for my wife to meet the right guy who’ll fuck her brains out and worship her body the way it deserves. She’s way too good to keep for myself.

When I try to rationalize this I too use the word “deserves” but I am always puzzled by my choice of word though I really can’t find a better one. But the phrase or thought is hard to discard when searching for this answer. To be deserving; merit: synonym: earn. A similar word is
: earn. Also to be entitled to. As I looked just now at the meaning of deserve it also says; to be worthy of. Well that seems to fit! But why, where’s the merit in her gorgeous presence? How much did she actually have to do with that? It’s quite a conundrum but still every time I see my wife “looking better than a body has a right to” my thought is always “boy don’t you deserve some good dick”.

Because it makes her happy?

I have my own theory. For my theory to be accurate, there has to be mutual trust, open communication, prior informed consent, etc. between husband and wife. No cheating.

My theory. Most men like the sight of a naked woman. Most men like to watch (or hear about) a naked woman fucking. It is even more of a turn on if he knows the woman, e.g. a neighbor or the wife of an acquaintance, even if she is not as physically attractive as, say, a porn model. Now, how much more of a turn on will it be if the woman also is his wife?

As I say, its a theory - only.

Seeing a neighbour’s wife naked is arousing because you’re not meant to. She’s meant to keep her clothes on in front of you. It’s transgressive.

Seeing your own wife naked is different. It is arousing because she is going to be fucked by another man, which is transgressive by normal mores. It is the highest possible arousal, combining the breach plus the angst.

Because it's a wonderfully time for both of us lol!! I prefer joining in but even her playing alone and returning with a giggling smile and story is magical!!

Can anyone point us to a lifestyle friendly club or attraction in panama city beach Florida please? Or very close to it? We will be there early April for some scuba and want to play in the evenings as well . Thank you

Why would a guy want a skilled male chef to cook for his wife?

For me it was because I wanted my wife to be satisfied in a way I know I can't fully achieve. Why should go with less just because I want her to?
Ever since I was a teenager at school I knew I was a beta male but I never had a problem with that, I am comfortable in my own skin and even back then when I would date a girl I would imagine her with an alpha.

That has never gone away, it's who I am. Seeing my wife with an alpha pleases me more than sex itself, knowing she is filled with joy and that men like this desire my wife but afterwards it'll be me she is with.

But there are many byproducts we're discovered along the way. We talk more openly together, we are closer as a couple, our love is deepened, there is far less pressure on me to perform as a provider and a lover, she's happier and more confident, the home is calmer and happier, she is far better able to cope with life and the home as a mother.

BritishCuckCpl wrote: ↑

Sun Mar 02, 2025 9:43 am

Why would a guy want a skilled male chef to cook for his wife?

For me it was because I wanted my wife to be satisfied in a way I know I can't fully achieve. Why should go with less just because I want her to?
Ever since I was a teenager at school I knew I was a beta male but I never had a problem with that, I am comfortable in my own skin and even back then when I would date a girl I would imagine her with an alpha.

That has never gone away, it's who I am. Seeing my wife with an alpha pleases me more than sex itself, knowing she is filled with joy and that men like this desire my wife but afterwards it'll be me she is with.

But there are many byproducts we're discovered along the way. We talk more openly together, we are closer as a couple, our love is deepened, there is far less pressure on me to perform as a provider and a lover, she's happier and more confident, the home is calmer and happier, she is far better able to cope with life and the home as a mother.

Perfectly summed up. I love meeting couples who are this comfortable with who they are. No shame...we are all who we are, and we're all happiest when we're being who we were meant to be.

SpicySaltnPepper wrote: ↑

Mon Mar 03, 2025 5:15 am

BritishCuckCpl wrote: ↑

Sun Mar 02, 2025 9:43 am

Why would a guy want a skilled male chef to cook for his wife?

For me it was because I wanted my wife to be satisfied in a way I know I can't fully achieve. Why should go with less just because I want her to?
Ever since I was a teenager at school I knew I was a beta male but I never had a problem with that, I am comfortable in my own skin and even back then when I would date a girl I would imagine her with an alpha.

That has never gone away, it's who I am. Seeing my wife with an alpha pleases me more than sex itself, knowing she is filled with joy and that men like this desire my wife but afterwards it'll be me she is with.

But there are many byproducts we're discovered along the way. We talk more openly together, we are closer as a couple, our love is deepened, there is far less pressure on me to perform as a provider and a lover, she's happier and more confident, the home is calmer and happier, she is far better able to cope with life and the home as a mother.

Perfectly summed up. I love meeting couples who are this comfortable with who they are. No shame...we are all who we are, and we're all happiest when we're being who we were meant to be.

Yes, that's exactly it. Getting started can be difficult because people are raised being told what a good husband and wife looks like, and anything that deviates from that is somehow less good. But everybody is different and so this cookie cutter approach just can't work for everybody which is why I think divorce rates are so high.

It's much better to focus on communication and openness, talking to each other about what you want, your fears, your needs. Cuckolding isn't going to be for everybody, others might prefer swinging or just some light hotwife or hothusband play, we've met couples who are the reverse of us where the husband has needed multiple women and the wife has found her satisfaction from watching him with other women.

Whatever works, just talk openly, be honest, work out some rules that work for you both and then enjoy it without shame.

Britney needs a lot of sex.
And she needs power over me.
For the first reason she fucks LOTS of man. At home, in clubs, on gangbangs. She loves it.
For the second reason she keeps me caged 24/7.

(For us, the answer is easy and logic)

BritishCuckCpl wrote: ↑

Mon Mar 03, 2025 5:24 am

SpicySaltnPepper wrote: ↑

Mon Mar 03, 2025 5:15 am

BritishCuckCpl wrote: ↑

Sun Mar 02, 2025 9:43 am

Why would a guy want a skilled male chef to cook for his wife?

For me it was because I wanted my wife to be satisfied in a way I know I can't fully achieve. Why should go with less just because I want her to?
Ever since I was a teenager at school I knew I was a beta male but I never had a problem with that, I am comfortable in my own skin and even back then when I would date a girl I would imagine her with an alpha.

That has never gone away, it's who I am. Seeing my wife with an alpha pleases me more than sex itself, knowing she is filled with joy and that men like this desire my wife but afterwards it'll be me she is with.

But there are many byproducts we're discovered along the way. We talk more openly together, we are closer as a couple, our love is deepened, there is far less pressure on me to perform as a provider and a lover, she's happier and more confident, the home is calmer and happier, she is far better able to cope with life and the home as a mother.

Perfectly summed up. I love meeting couples who are this comfortable with who they are. No shame...we are all who we are, and we're all happiest when we're being who we were meant to be.

Yes, that's exactly it. Getting started can be difficult because people are raised being told what a good husband and wife looks like, and anything that deviates from that is somehow less good. But everybody is different and so this cookie cutter approach just can't work for everybody which is why I think divorce rates are so high.

It's much better to focus on communication and openness, talking to each other about what you want, your fears, your needs. Cuckolding isn't going to be for everybody, others might prefer swinging or just some light hotwife or hothusband play, we've met couples who are the reverse of us where the husband has needed multiple women and the wife has found her satisfaction from watching him with other women.

Whatever works, just talk openly, be honest, work out some rules that work for you both and then enjoy it without shame.

In my case, my wife is asexual, so she let's me play with other men's wives since sex isn't really something she cares for.

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  I remember reading all the reasons on the original thread and exclaiming "yeah, this is why we do this!" Now suddenly as my fingers hover above the keyboard, my mind is pretty much blank. Others have said it so much better than I can. The reasons are numerous and are swirling around in my mind...pretty much in a jumbled up mess right now, but they ARE there.
  What started out as my fantasy has become a very intense, hot reality for the both of us. At this time all I can do is to point out is the benefits we have reaped. She has become a very sexual woman who is filled with self confidence, and I have a rejuvinated sex drive that I figured was gone forever. We have established a level of communication that most couples would find bewildering and an excitement with each other that is pretty much unheard of after so many years of marriage. I have given up on trying to really understand exactly why I love seeing her with other men and am just basking in the fact that it is really to us.
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Creo yo que leer apuntes como este son los que nos motivan a seguir intentando lograr nuestra fantasía, gracias...

Was fun reading all the different opinions, theories and thoughts.

I can only speak for myself ofcourse, but for me it is a combination of:

1. Seeing the love of my life enjoying herself to the fullest
2. Begin proud of her that she embraces this lifestyle
3. It makes her so beautiful when she is having sex with another man
4. Begin proud of myself that I can arrange dates for her and watching it all
5. It turns us both on like crazy

I really think it makes them feel sexy. That guys want to just fuck them. They are desirable. A lot of things come up. They are still sexy as a “wife” that guys will do anything for them.

Because she is so beautifull, i adore her so much. And I want her to enjoy, to orgasm, whatever she wants!
Because she is a pure godess!

Barti wrote: ↑

Tue Mar 18, 2025 3:25 pm

Because she is so beautifull, i adore her so much. And I want her to enjoy, to orgasm, whatever she wants!
Because she is a pure godess!

Yes...Yes. That is exactly how I feel!!!

I love m’y wife being with other men. I love when i get to watch a big cock take over my wife’s mouth and Pussy.
She loves big cocks and it’s not something she gets from me so the thrill of her her getting all made up and putting on a slutty dress to go on dates with other men is so exciting. She gets to go out have a great night and make love to another man and get the duck she desires. He gets to enjoy her and then send her home full of his cum

Because of love, the big love